Sunday, March 2, 2025

THE BEST FILMS OF 2024

 

Though I haven't yet managed to find a new publisher for my yearly top-ten movie list, I persist in this labor of deepest love for films, which have continued to be a primary source of inspiration and solace on a life journey where I feel those needs profoundly.  Of the 150 or so films I have seen this year (as every year), including all of the Oscar nominated films that have been available for screening, these are the ones I think most deserve an audience.  So, to start, here is my list of the ten best films of 2024:

1.         1.    Sing Sing

2.         2.    Nickel Boys

3.         3.    We Grown Now

4.         4.    Good One

5.         5.    Daughters

6.        6.     His Three Daughters

7.         7.    Bird

8.         8.    Flow

9.         9.    A Real Pain

      10.  All We Imagine As Light

As always, it's an eclectic mix, some of which have received widespread recognition but many of which haven't gotten nearly the attention they deserve.  There is one documentary on this list, and three films originating from outside the U.S.; half are directed by women, and more than half probe the experiences of people at the margins (including Black people, incarcerated people and their families, and working-class women in India).  It's unusual for so many U.S. films to make it onto my list, which I find encouraging.  This mix of stories and storytellers taught me the most, touched me most deeply, and shed light in places where it is most needed.

I'm still missing a platform beyond my own blog to publish movie commentary and still hope to find one again soon—leads or connections on that are invited and welcome.  My own experience reflects how celebrity culture submerges many of the most original and vital contributions.  Artists who keep creating in the face of the odds—many of whose work is reflected in this list of the best films of the year—are my models to keep writing, and to keep offering what is mine to offer, whether or not it is seen or heard, especially important if one of your gifts is to help others be seen and heard. 

1.     Sing Sing has garnered some well-deserved critical attention, but not all that it deserves.  Most critics have focused on the in-prison theater program that inspired the film, Rehabilitation Through the Arts, and have offered an array of opinions as to how convincing a case the film makes for the humanizing power of artistic expression.  While I of course see those themes in the film, it illuminates more than we may yet be ready to see.

Even the most complimentary criticism I have read too readily accepts the implication that prisons are somehow struggling to rehabilitate people in custody and that theater programs like this one have unlocked some secret code.  I think what the film is doing is more subtle and significant than that.

Inspired by an Esquire article about the program, writer-director Greg Kwedar and his writing partner, Clint Bentley, followed the curiosity the article sparked in them.  As Kwedar explains in an excellent interview with Tonya Moseley on Fresh Air, they reached out to the author of the article and the director of the program at Sing Sing.  Those men introduced them to various formerly incarcerated men who had participated in the program, including Clarence Maclin, who has a starring role in the film, and John Divine G Whitfield, who is played in the film by the great Colman Domingo.  The four of them (Kwedar, Bentley, Maclin, and Whitfield) built the film's screenplay together out of that shared exploration.

Without engaging the subject directly, the film quietly captures essential aspects of the dehumanization of prison life—the tiny living spaces, the sudden restrictions of movement (a buzzer sounds, and one must drop to the ground, or one's tiny cell can at any time be searched and left in disarray), the entrenchment of aggression and toxic ideas of masculinity, the tenuousness of any small experience of freedom.   A particularly painful clemency hearing conveys the relentless conviction that those in custody must always be viewed with suspicion no matter the subject; a hearing officer invites Domingo's character to talk about the theater program, which he co-founded and leads, and then asks him, "Are you acting now?" The wince of pain on his face says it all.

Perhaps as a culture we are too conditioned to see these aspects of the carceral system as justified for their depiction to capture people's attention—yet the film also conveys the humanity of the men inside.  The filmmakers' decision not to say much about the crimes of conviction for the men is not merely a generous choice but a necessary one; in all but one case, the film does not question their "guilt" but rather gently serves up an opportunity to question how living under these conditions is likely to solve anything.

Most of the cast members are themselves formerly incarcerated, and everyone in the cast and crew received the same pay rate, from Domingo to the production assistants; they also all share in the film's equity.  The decommissioned New York prison where the action was shot happens to have been one of the prisons in which the cast members had been housed when it was in use, and the process of filming—of donning prison garb and placing themselves back inside a place that was a kind of hell—asks a lot of them.  Maclin has spoken in various interviews about the challenges of the experience but also of the influence he and other formerly incarcerated cast members had on ensuring the production's authenticity.  He has also spoken of the commitment he felt to conveying accurately the experience of incarceration and the humanity of those who live it.

Domingo too has commented on what he gained from the experience, recognizing that his own background is very similar to most of these men.  The film reflects the reciprocity that the men describe in the process of making it; one of its pleasures is witnessing the push-pull between Domingo's character and Maclin's, their power struggles and the ways they resist and give in to practices of solidarity.

I hope others will grasp the gift these artists have offered us: an opportunity to bear witness to what transformation is possible even and especially among those we are most inclined to throw away.  Most of what we are doing  inside prisons looks nothing like the theater practice portrayed here.  This beautiful film is not only about the power of theater and art; it's a vision of the conditions under which transformation is possible at all.  Perhaps we ought to focus less on fixing those in custody and more on fixing our collective thinking errors about incarceration and rehabilitation.   This film shows the way.  

 [In English; rated R for  language throughout; nominated for, and deserves to win, Academy Awards for Best Actor (Colman Domingo), and Best Original Song ("Like a Bird"); also nominated for an Academy Award for Best Adapted Screenplay (Clint Bentley, Greg Kwedar, Clarence Maclin, and John Divine G Whitfield); deserved nominations and would be my pick for Best Director (Greg Kwedar) and Best Picture; on at least 108 other critics' top movie lists; available to stream on Amazon Prime.]

2.      "Nickel Boys" is in many ways the most ambitious film on this list and a bit of a challenge to access—but that challenge points to its power.  It's an adaptation of Colson Whitehead's Pulitzer Prize-winning novel about two teenage boys who form a bond while doing time in a "reform school" in Florida in the 1960s.  The school in the book is based on a real facility, the Dozier School, which was ultimately revealed to be a place where  students were abused and where, years later, many unmarked graves were found on the property—among the many clues that, as with the so-called "residential schools" where Native American children were confined, worked, tortured, and abused, places like this were not so much schools as they were instruments and enforcers of white supremacy culture. 

This is the second feature film of director RaMell Ross, who received recognition, including an Academy Award nomination, for his first feature, "Hale County This Morning, This Evening."  That film is a documentary that delves deep into the experiences of folks living in a Black community in Alabama where Ross embedded for many years and where he still resides part time.  Ross is a seer; he wants us to begin to notice and question the perspective from which stories of Black experience have been told. He aims to find ways to decenter the white gaze, to strip away the opportunities for the rest of us to distract ourselves with what we need and want to believe.

Building on his work on "Hale County," Ross chooses to tell much of this story from the perspective of one of the boys—Ellwood, a idealistic, studious devotee of Martin Luther King, Jr., very beloved by the grandmother who raised him.  The first part of the film offers a view of the world from Ellwood's childhood eyes; we glimpse him only reflected in glass or in his grandmother's iron, or in a photobooth that he visits with a girlfriend.  It's from his perspective that we experience the events that land him at the benignly named Nickel Academy (predictably revealing the virtual impossibility of living a life clean enough to ensure one can avoid being criminalized).  We ride with him in the police car which takes him to Nickel, with two white boys who experience treatment much different than he receives.  We meet the more cynical Turner, who becomes his friend, from Elwood's perspective. 

From there the film switches between the perspectives of the two boys, along with some flashes forward to an adult Elwood, who we view from behind.  To say more would be too much, as there are some twists that you should experience yourself. 

Suffice it to say that I hope you will experience this film yourself, and maybe more than once.  My general practice is to see a film the first time without reading about it at all; this is one film that benefits from the sort of orientation I've just offered.  It helps to know that the boy whose perspective you are experiencing in the early part of the film ends up at Nickel Academy, and that it does not go well.  What Ellwood experiences throughout the film—punctuated at a couple of points with clips from a very different film featuring a Black character in custody, the 1958 film "The Defiant Ones"—contains elements common to Black experience, then and (heart-breakingly) now; we know this but we don't want to know it.  Ross wants us to see it and feel it in a different way. 

Though the experience of watching this film can be disorienting and I'm not sure everything about it works, once I got my bearings (especially on the second viewing), I was thunderstruck.  Among other things, Ross awakened me to how much more there is to know, and offered me a sense of how much gets in the way of necessary understanding.  What he has attempted here is so much bigger and worthier than the other Oscar-nominated films have sought to attempt.  Of those nominated, this one would easily be my pick for Best Picture. 

[In English; rated PG-13 for thematic material involving racism, some strong language including racial slurs, violent content, and smoking; nominated for and deserves to win Academy Awards for Best Picture and Best Adapted Screenplay (RaMell Ross and Joslyn Barnes); also deserved nominations for Best Director (RaMell Ross) and Best Cinematography; on at least 138 other critics' top movie lists; available in theaters and on streaming platforms.]

3.     "We Grown Now" didn't get nearly the attention it deserves.  I caught a late-night showing of it in an empty Portland theater, where it played for no more than a week.   I distinctly recall wondering where the audience was for this beautiful film. 

Director Minhal Baig is not Black, but she is from Chicago, and this film grew out of her interest in the community of people who lived in Chicago's Cabrini-Green housing project.  Demolished over a fifteen-year period beginning in 1995, Cabrini-Green was home to many Black families who came to Chicago during the Great Migration.  Its popular image is as a symbol of the crime and neglect that characterized so many such housing projects, and of course it is the setting for the horror classic, "Candyman." 

But Baig worked from an understanding that there is more to the story of Cabrini-Green, that many good people made it their home, played there, struggled there, and loved each other well there.  Building on conversations with many folks who lived there, she set the film in the early 1990s and centers it on two boys of about ten, along with their families.  The film mostly works from their perspective—what they do for fun (which includes dragging a mattress down several floors when the elevator isn't working, to be used for a practice of jumping on it), what their families eat for dinner, their experience of the worry and stress the adults in their lives manage around them.  One of the boys, Malik, is a bit of a seer, sensing the memories of his grandmother's generation, who moved to the building after departing the Jim Crow South. 

In a way that connects to what RaMell Ross wants us to notice, I recall being struck by how seldom we see stories like this, of good people making good lives for themselves under trying conditions.  I felt anxious for these boys, sensing the vulnerability which doesn't trouble them; I worried for them like I might worry for my own grandsons.  I also was moved by a sense of how loved they are, and of the richness of their lineage.  The film awakened admiration and curiosity that I hadn't noticed I was missing.  And the sound design captures of bit of the energy of the place, both warm and, occasionally, menacing. 

The end of the film features photos of former residents of Cabrini-Green, playing, laughing, celebrating, living their lives.  When I later learned of how director Baig built this story, I could see her inspiration.  As with "Sing Sing" and "Nickel Boys," this work was borne of a practice of solidarity.  It deserves an audience.

[[In English; rated PG for thematic material and language; deserved Oscar nominations for Best Picture, Best Director (Minhal Baig), and Best Original Screenplay (Baig); on at least one other critic' s top movie list; available in theaters and on streaming platforms.]

4.      "Good One" is, moment for moment, so carefully observed that you feel like you are privy to the inner life of its quiet main character—Sam (Lily Collias), the teenage girl who is described in the title.  The film allows us to be the witness of a backpacking trip she takes with her tightly-wound dad (James LeGros) and his sloppier friend Matt (Danny McCarthy).   Matt's teenage son was supposed to join them, but bails at the last minute, apparently out of likely justified irritation connected to his parents' recent divorce, so Sam finds herself  fielding more than she bargained for.

It's obvious that Sam can be relied upon to keep an even keel; she navigates the men's unspoken expectations and fends for herself, capable of pitching a tent, loading her own day pack, filtering water, and building a fire.  She falls into the role of cooking steaming bowls of ramen for the group, and rolls with the men's assumptions about her; her own father mistakes her for a vegetarian. 

You also sense that Sam doesn't miss much—which is an interesting contrast to these two self-centered men, who do.  To some viewers, their dynamic (which isn't the slightest bit over-played) may well feel familiar, as it did to me; there's a sense that how the men see themselves is misaligned in a way that Sam's sense of herself isn't.  And Sam ends the trip even more awake than she was at the beginning.

That the film works so well is attributable in large part to a fantastic performance by its lead; Collias is quietly riveting as a young woman who has grounded herself enough to be ready for revelation.  She makes an unusually strong first impression, much like Jennifer Lawrence did in "Winter's Bone"--alert and clear and wise beyond her years.   And writer-director India Donaldson doesn't put a single foot wrong in her directorial debut.  It's rare to find a film that understands so well how to show rather than tell about a transformative moment in a person's life.  Every shot, every sound, every moment shimmers with truth.

[In English; rated R for language; deserved Oscar nominations for Best Picture, Best Director (India Donaldson), Best Original Screenplay (Donaldson), and Best Actress (Lily Collias); on at least three other critics' top movie lists; available to stream on Amazon Prime.]

5.     "Daughters" is the one documentary on my list.  It offers a window on the harms that radiate out from the carceral system, impacting people who are innocent by any definition—that is, the children of the incarcerated.  In doing so, it also helps us see the humanity of those inside, too.

The film sets its focus on a program that arranges father-daughter dances for the children of incarcerated men. As you might imagine, this is quite an undertaking, involving extensive preparation for both the children and the fathers; the dads are required to participate in group coaching sessions with a mentor for several weeks ahead of the event.  The state of the family relationships, including with the girls' mothers,  varies, for a whole host of reasons—including that in-person prison visits have been greatly curtailed in recent years, so the girls may well not have had physical contact with their dads in years.  And given the length of prison sentences to which we have become accustomed in the U.S., they may well not see their dads again for quite some time.

Here again, the build of the film evinces signs of good solidarity practice.  It is co-directed by Natalie Rae, who previously has directed music videos, and Angela Patton, the CEO of Girls For a Change, the program that coordinates the dance; Patton is also featured in the film. The work Patton is already engaged in to build trust with the participants, including the prison, pays off in this intimate production, which allows us to glimpse into the tender places in the lives of several participants.

The families featured include girls as young as five and some in their teens; we are offered a window into the complexity of their emotions regarding separation from their fathers, the hole it leaves in their psyches, and the various ways they attempt to fill that hole.  The film is moving, but not manipulative; it holds the complexity of the participants' experience so well that watching the dance itself feels both essential and heart-wrenching.  I hope it will make you wonder how we have acclimated to this state of affairs; like any act of true solidarity, the film wisely doesn't triumphally end with the dance or with what makes us feel the best , but continues to follow some of the girls and men.  The story, for them, doesn't end with the dance, nor should it for us.

[In English; rated PG-13 or some thematic elements and language; deserved an Oscar nomination for Best Documentary Feature and deserved to win; on at least one other critic's top movie list; available to stream on Netflix.]

6.             "His Three Daughters" puts us in the lived-in New York apartment temporarily occupied by three siblings who have not resolved their long-simmering differences, as they await their fathers' imminent passing.  You might be tempted to think you have them pegged before you do—a temptation to which they also appear to have succumbed. 

Katie (Carrie Coon) is tightly wound, apparently the eldest sister, and sees herself as the head of the family, likely because no one dares fight her for it.  She fills the space with her acts of care for the sisters and their dad, none of which come free, and airs a host of grievances, most of which involve Rachel (Natasha Lyonne).  As it turns out, Rachel has been living in the apartment with their dad and possibly caring for him, though Katie also lives in the city, but whatever care Rachel has been offering buys her neither respect nor gratitude from her sisters.

Katie confidently enlists the youngest sister, Christina (Elizabeth Olsen), as her ally, but as the film unfolds, you wonder about Christina.  She has come in from the West Coast, and doesn't push back on Katie's views, but doesn't seem to be all the way in or even all the way there.  And though Rachel appears to be the family outcast, the obvious explanations—that she mostly stays holed up in her room watching sports and appears to make her living placing bets—don't satisfy.  Katie banishes her outside to smoke pot, a pastime that one gathers did not bother their father; Rachel's place in the power dynamics feels curious. 

Writer-director Azazel Jacobs approaches his subjects with compassion, and his film might strike a note of familiarity for anyone who has brought the right amount of curiosity to prickly family dynamics.  Moments of crisis tend to find us digging in on patterns that don't serve and, as Anton Chekhov also knew, such moments don't bring out the best in people.  But attending to what emerges sometimes reveals truths that you didn't know were reachable, and Jacobs finds ways to surprise us here.

Which of the sisters irritates you the most, and which are you most inclined to judge?  Which is most awake?  Why does Rachel withdraw, and is Catherine really there?  Was their father aware of these conflicts? 

This film ends up rewarding attention to such questions.  There is more to each of the sisters than first appears, and their conflicts are exactly the kind that feel unsolvable but that may just benefit from the sort of release of old hurts that is hardest to find.  Director Jacobs offers an assist in the film's later moments that some critics didn't know what to do with but that I adored.  Without spoiling anything, I'll just say that a late interaction with the dying father felt real and truthful to me, even if not in the literal sense; Jacobs captures something powerful about how a loved one can influence things as they transition that I believe to be possible even while most people would miss it or discount the possibility.  The payoffs in this film's resolution feel rich and deserved to me.

They wouldn't be possible without such sensitive work from the film's three leads and from Jay O. Sanders as their father.  Each woman has hidden depths, and their father helps you see what they, and you, might have missed in each.  This film knows things that may only be knowable if you've lost someone dear to you and found a way to attend; it holds truths that I've rarely seen attempted and that you're only ready for when you're ready.

[In English; rated R for language and drug use; deserved Oscar nominations for Best Picture, Best Director (Azazel Jacobs), and Best Original Screenplay (Jacobs); on at least four other critics' lists of the years' best films; available to stream on Netflix.)

7.      "Bird" is another film that dares a little beyond what most films attempt.  It's the work of the great British director Andrea Arnold, whose films always trouble me in the best ways; her film, "Red Road," was on my list of the best films of 2007.  Arnold is interested in the gritty stories of people making poor choices that may make sense only when you understand just how limited their options actually are. 

This film fits that pattern, and then swerves in directions Arnold's prior work wouldn't lead you to expect.  It centers on Bailey (played by astounding newcomer Nykiya Adams), a 12-year-old who, with her 14-year-old brother Hunter, lives in a squat with their dad, Bug (Barry Keoghan doing his very best work to date).   Bug doesn't appear to have matured much past his own adolescence—he had both kids before he was 16—and though he cares for them, his attention span and resources don't elevate his parenting instincts.  Bailey spends a lot of time alone, capturing footage of what she sees on her battered cellphone and occasionally projecting the footage she has captured on the graffiti-filled room she shares with Hunter.

One morning an odd, slight man (the always fantastic Franz Rogowski, whose genius work here deserves an Oscar) seems to float into the field where Bailey has slept through the night after leaving the squat in a fit of irritation with her dad.  The man calls himself Bird; he asks Bailey an add question and is untroubled by her hostile reaction to him.  Bailey's hard edges are no doubt reasonably acquired, but Bird intrigues her, and she finds herself following him.  One senses he knows that.  Soon, they have struck up a wary friendship.

Bird tells Bailey he has come to town to find his family, suggesting mysteriously that he was separated from them in childhood.  Bailey thinks her mother, Peyton, might have some information; it turns out that Peyton lives with Bailey's three much younger siblings under conditions worse than Bailey's life with Bug.  The perils that ensue as Bailey attempts to protect her siblings from her mother's abusive boyfriend convey a lot about what her life has taught her.  And her uneasy relationship with Bird offers hope and help she wouldn't have imagined or looked for.

Arnold has managed something remarkable with this film that is hard to describe.  Bailey's life is full of danger of the kind that many children experience; the adults around her mean well but live in over their heads, and that's the life she is already living.  As in all of Arnold's films, there are scenes that will make you squirm and flinch with worry.  But in Bird, Bailey, building on a connection with animals that she has instinctively cultivated, finds protection and a kindred soul.  Their connection is what I would call extra-real; Arnold has resisted explaining it and has resisted the term magical realism, which people seem to reach for.  Though I don't have words for it that satisfy, I think the story of Bailey and Bird contains something true.

Much of what makes this film work so beautifully is attributable to Rogowski and Keoghan.  Rogowski is an other-worldly actor in every film; his Bird is a wonderful combination of innocent and knowing, vulnerable and powerful.  He seems to know that his powers are limited, that he can't fix everything.  But he also will instinctively step in where he can.  He helps Bailey find her power.

As for Keoghan, he, like Arnold herself, understands that messy people are often good and wonderful and intriguing.  His Bug is both aggravating and lovable, often in the same moment.  Like many people whose lives don't offer much, he is grabbing all of it with joy and optimism.  Arnold loves this universe and the people in it; the clips in the closing credits of folks in this gritty part of Kent, England, where Arnold herself grew up reveal more of her great affection, and show you it is founded.

[In English; rated R for language throughout, some violent content, and drug material; deserved Academy Award nominations for Best Picture, Best Director (Andrea Arnold), Best Original Screenplay, and Best Supporting Actor (Franz Rogowski and Barry Keoghan, though I'd give the award to Rogowski); on at least two other critics' lists of the year's best films; available on streaming platforms.]

8.     "Flow" is an absolutely gorgeous animated film made on a fraction of the budget most Hollywood films command, something you wouldn't imagine if (like me) you don't know how to read those signs.  It's the first Latvian film to be nominated for an Academy Award (it's nominated for two) and tells its beautiful animal adventure story without any human dialogue.  You won't miss the celebrity voices.

The film is set in a post-human world, and we experience the story from the point of view of a gray cat.  Faithful to that point of view, we don't get any explanation of where the humans have gone, though there are signs they were here.  The cat appears to have been enjoying a comfortable solitary existence in a house surrounded by cat sculptures, until an epic flood (also unexplained, naturally) changes its world.  The cat scrambles for survival, and ultimately finds itself collaborating in that struggle with a capybara, a ring-tailed lemur, a Labrador Retriever, and a secretarybird.  At various points, the small band navigates the flood's aftermath in a sailboat, jockeying for space and squabbling about where to go and who and what should be allowed on board.

What follows is a journey so perilous that I felt real fear, especially watching it on the big screen.  The film faithfully captures the varied and delightful ways these animals actually move, and their sounds are all actual animal sounds (except for the capybara, whose actual sounds were deemed too unpleasant so the film's sound designer used the sounds of a baby camel instead).  One of the pleasures of the film is admiring the particular skills of each animal, and how they communicate verbally and otherwise.  I did not at all miss human dialogue, savoring instead a depiction of solidarity borne of necessity (though requiring intention and effort that was not inevitable) which is genuinely instructive and inspiring.  I don't know or even care how likely it is that animals would respond this way; the film beautifully makes the case that these animals do, and watching their movement through a world in crisis left me inspired.  This film deserves all the recognition and notice it is receiving, and offers much to savor on repeat viewings.

[All in animal sounds; rated PG for peril and thematic elements; nominated for, and should win, the Academy Award for Best Animated Feature; also received an Academy Award nomination for Best International Feature Film, and should win among those nominated; on at least 57 other critics' lists of the years' best films; available (and well worth seeing) in theaters and also on streaming platforms.]

9.      "A Real Pain" genuinely surprised me.  I'll acknowledge that, up to now,  I haven’t been a big fan of Jesse Eisenberg, who wrote and directed the film, but he has not put a foot wrong here.  He has assembled a story that serves up, and resists neatly answering, important questions about how trauma lives in us and the complications of finding responses that are appropriate, healthy, and that honor our own and others' suffering.

The story involves two cousins, David (Eisenberg) and Benji (Kieran Culkin), once close but now slightly estranged and wary, who embark on a legacy trip to Poland, where their recently deceased and much beloved grandmother survived the Holocaust.  It's hard to imagine anyone other than Culkin as Benji; he understands how to embody someone who is a mass of the most exasperating contradictions—hyper-sensitive and thoughtless, insightful and boorish, charismatic and irritating, compassionate and deeply unkind.  Perhaps Culkin himself embodies those qualities, as some have suggested, but conveying them this insightfully is actually a different matter.

In one sense, the title is apparently meant to describe Benji.  David has done all the work to plan the trip, and Benji evinces slight gratitude but also is the worst travel companion ever.  He grabs for the better seat on the plane, the first shower, and the attention of their travel companions.  He mails marijuana to their hotel.  He rudely critiques the well-meaning non-Jewish guide of the legacy tour.  But David, too, is a bit of a mess, the kind of a mess who fits in better but navigates his own sense of loneliness.  He has a stable job and a wife and a son, but envies ways of connecting which Benji can access that he can't.

The members of their group all have connections to the Holocaust, mostly as descendants of survivors, but don't quite know how to exist in relation to that legacy.  The person in the group who appears to be most clear-headed is a man who survived the Rwandan genocide and later converted to Judaism.  The groups' efforts to make sense of their connections to trauma and monumental suffering reveal some unease.  Are we proud of this?  When might playfulness or humor be okay?  Will facts and information help us access the meaning of what happened?  How do we think about the lives of relative privilege that we now live?  How can we honor our ancestors?

Eisenberg serves up these questions, and wisely doesn't try to solve them.  My own instinct is that such trauma lives in our bodies in ways that are hard to access and understand.  We haven't evolved to a place where people have found the best ways to hold and honor real pain.  And sometimes we wound each other in the attempt.

[In English; rated R for language throughout and some drug use; nominated for Academy Awards for Best Supporting Actor (Kieran Culkin, who deserves to win among those nominated) and Best Original Screenplay (Jesse Eisenberg, who also deserves to win among those nominated); on at least 98 other critics' lists of the year's best films; available on streaming platforms.]

10.    "All We Imagine As Light" is the ineffably beautiful work of Payal Kapadia, who collaborated on the screenplay (which features dialogue in Hindi and Malayalam) with three other writers.  It would be my pick for an Academy Award for Best International Feature, but India didn't put it forward for that honor, deeming it not Indian enough, though the film is set in India and features an all-Indian cast and an Indian story.  From what I understand, it's hard to get independent films like this made in India, so Kapadia turned to European backers to get it made.  Her film went on to achieve international recognition, including the Grand Prize at the Cannes Film Festival.  There's a lot to notice about all that and I remain curious about how to unpack it.

It catches my attention that this is a story of working women in India, people who are not glamorous and who don't have access to social advantage.  Prabha is a head nurse at a Mumbai hospital, having lived only briefly with a husband who has lived for many years in Europe and is less and less in contact.  Prabha is kind and keeps to herself, though she allows small attentions from a gentle doctor who waits for her at the end of her shift.  She shares a small apartment with her much younger colleague Anu, who enjoys a secret romance with a young Muslim man, Shiaz, that the two must hide from their respective families.  Prabha is friends with Parvaty, a widow who is being cruelly displaced from her home by greedy property developers.

The film captures small moments in the lives of these three—the bustle of commuting, small meals cooked at home, little pleasures shared by the community of nurses whose edges Prabha and Anu navigate, the limited options each woman faces for love and work and housing and social approval.  We are offered glimpses of the resilience and will that are required for these women to survive, the little moments of solidarity that they reach for, and the stolen moments of rebellion and assertions of agency. 

A final segment of the film takes the three to the coastal home village to which Parvaty decides to return.  There Anu and Shiaz steal secret moments of happiness and Prabha experiences what may be a mystical encounter that brings her to clarity about the marriage that has left her abandoned.  Kapadia 's interests as a filmmaker –perhaps like those of so many U.S. filmmakers whose interests don't fit Hollywood's investment criteria—take us to places that we (in the U.S., at least) aren't usually invited to go.  I'm grateful for the vision she found a way to share, and hope the well-deserved attention her beautiful film has received will open the way for us to see more such stories.

[In Malayalam, Hindi, Marathi, English, and German; not rated; deserved an Academy Award for Best International Feature; on at least 91 other critics' lists of the year's best films; available to stream on Amazon Prime.]

 

 

 

Sunday, March 10, 2024

The Best Films of 2023, along with some Oscar commentary

As my counterpoint to the Oscars, and in keeping with my longstanding practice, I offer my own list of the best films of 2023, interspersed with related opinions about what and who deserve more celebration than they get inside the Hollywood machinery.  I've seen nearly every Oscar-nominated film, and in the neighborhood of 150 films this year (as every year) and, to my mind, these are the works that most deserve an audience.  So here is the list itself:

1.      Past Lives

2.     Poor Things

3.     L'immensità

4.     Descendant

5.     The Eternal Memory

6.     Rye Lane

7.      Little Richard: I Am Everything

8.     Reality

9.     Every Body

10.   Perfect Days

 As usual, it's an eclectic mix, some of which have received recognition but most of which haven't gotten nearly the attention they deserve.  There are four documentaries, three films originating outside the U.S., seven films directed by women, and four films featuring queer characters and stories.  This mix of stories and storytellers taught me the most, touched me the most deeply, and had the most important things to say.

I'm missing having a platform beyond my own blog to publish movie commentary and hope I will find one again soon.  (I welcome any leads or connections on that.)  My own experience reflects how celebrity culture submerges many of the most original and even vital contributions.  Artists who keep creating in the face of those odds are my models to keep writing, and to keep offering what is yours to offer, whether or not it is seen or heard—especially if one of your gifts is to help others be seen and heard.

Here are some of thoughts about these ten beautiful films:

1.                Past Lives is one of the most gorgeous films I have seen in this or any year.  Frankly, all the hullabaloo about Greta Gerwig and Margot Robbie not receiving Oscar nominations for "Barbie" has elicited major eyerolls for me; although "Past Lives" (like the far inferior "Barbie") is nominated for Best Picture and also Best Original Screenplay (and deserves to win both but probably only has a shot at the latter), its writer-director Celine Song deserves an Oscar for Best Director in my book, and Greta Lee and Teo Yoo also deserved nominations for Best Actress and Best Actor respectively. What they and their collaborators have achieved with this beautiful film really has no parallel, certainly not among those who were nominated.

 The story here is specific and complex, but is imparted with spareness that is only possible with rigorous honesty that most films can't touch.  It begins in South Korea, where two 12-year-olds, Na Young and Hae Sung, are smitten with each other.  Na Young's family emigrates to Canada and she becomes Nora (Greta Lee), and the two childhood friends lose contact.  They reestablish contact again at age 24, and the connection still feels compelling to both.  But oceans and cultures separate them as they are building their adult identities, so they ultimately decide not to pursue further contact.

 At age 36, Nora is a playwright living in New York City with her writer husband, Arthur (an excellent John Magaro), and Hae Sung (Teo Yoo) travels there, ostensibly as a tourist but really to see Nora.  The heart of the film involves their meeting, and what the connection means for them and also for Nora and Arthur.  Yet this film avoids the love-triangle trap that most films (and many people) would fall into.  Instead, Nora and Hae Sung pick up the thread from childhood, which circumstances made impossible to hold as tightly as they might have done.  Who are you?  Who am I with you?  What if our lives had gone differently? 

 The film mostly depicts conversations—between Nora and Hae Sung, Nora and Arthur, even Hae Sung and Arthur—yet the conversations are riveting, as suspenseful as any action film.  Most movie romances trade on fantasy and dishonesty; they feed unrealistic expectations about what love looks like and how it is lived.  This film offers three people asking the deepest questions, and engaging those questions with rigorous honesty.  Though it's not exactly a romance, it is absolutely about love.  And though it depicts aspects of immigrant experience with great insight, the story may well spark reflection for any of us who have periods or spaces in our lives that exist apart from those closest to us now.  Nora is in some ways unknowable to Arthur, who clearly loves her and works to understand her and knows her very well.  She is also unknowable to Hae Sung, even while each man knows things about her that no one else does.  Only she can integrate those various selves—yet part of what makes their meeting compelling for Nora is that Hae Sung carries pieces of her that she has not been able to access. 

 The film's title nods toward the Korean concept of in yun, that past life connections reverberate into our present lives and influence the depth and quality of our relationships.  It's a rich idea, examined thoughtfully.  Among its many gifts, this luminous film invites us to wonder about and to honor our whole selves, our own past and current lives, and the tender truths accessible only through our most important connections.  [In Korean and English; rated PG-13 for some strong language; nominated for (and deserves to win) Academy Awards for Best Picture and Best Original Screenplay (Celine Song); also would be my pick for Best Director (Celine Song), and would be on my own list for Best Actress (Greta Lee) and Best Actor (Teo Yoo).  Available on streaming platforms.] 

2.              Poor Things is the true feminist triumph on my list this year, counter to all the "Barbie" hype once again.  I went into it with low expectations; director Yorgos Lanthimos is definitely an original but I don't always resonate with his artistic choices, which frequently go to extremes that don't ultimately pay off.  This film was unsettling and weird and excessive in all the ways I have come to expect from Lanthimos—but this time the weird journey of the film redounds with profound insights about female identity and power.  What might it look like for a woman to form an identity refreshingly unhampered by the contradictory and stifling expectations and power moves that drive so many of us to desperation? 

Emma Stone deserves much of the credit here.  Her fearless, gutsy performance makes the journey compelling—and indeed, I don't think very many performers could create a character as full-bodied as her Bella Baxter.  Without giving away too much, it may help to know that Bella is a woman implanted with the brain of an infant (revealed a short way into the film but knowing that makes the early scenes a bit smoother going).  Her consciousness awakens while in a woman's body and under the care of a mad but benevolent scientist whom she lovingly calls "God" (a perfect role for Willem Dafoe) and whom she experiences as a father figure.  "God" (known to others as Godwin Baxter) offers Bella (in the name of scientific inquiry) more freedom than is typically allowed a human child, much less one in a woman's body.  She emerges with a sense of freedom to experiment, to explore her body and play with language, and even to insist on things "God" and others would deny her.  One of the delights of the film is to watch what is revealed about each of the characters in their response to Bella—revealed more clearly than usual because Bella is more clearly herself than most of us manage to be.

For example, Bella runs away with a rake, Duncan Wedderburn (an amusingly off-kilter Mark Ruffalo, whom she tellingly addresses mostly by his full name).  He promises her adventure and warns her not to cling to him too hard.  His life experience clearly has not prepared him for a woman who is both intrigued enough to be seduced by him but who is pursuing her own agenda, too convinced of her own agency to miss his lies and petulance or to think she actually needs him.  Watching her navigate Duncan Wedderburn and his many predictable but fruitless attempts at manipulation is one of the film's true delights.

Sexual pleasure ("furious jumping" is a favorite term for Bella) plays a big role in the film, which has proved a distraction for some.  To my mind, the film makes more of a case for its indulgences than most lusty films do; Bella is in her body and she is curious and also unhindered by whatever spin the culture around her puts on how she lives in that body.  Her explorations of the world in the body of a woman identified as beautiful is a revelation; what would it be like to operate with such abandon?  Godwin Baxter and his assistant, Max (first tasked with studying Bella and quickly smitten with her) both prove capable of evolving in response to the freedom she insists upon.  Her expressions of delight and sorrow and curiosity feel inspired.  How audiences responds to her exploration of life and female consciousness may prove similarly revealing.

Lanthimos's experimental aesthetic deepens the experience.  The art direction of this film is a revelation; it's set in Victorian England and other parts of Europe, but also not in any real time.  The colors and costumes and scientific revelations belong in a more imaginative parallel universe.  All of that assists in shaking us out of our usual ways of seeing, perhaps moving us past a few of our failures of imagination. 

I would give the Best Actress Oscar to Lily Gladstone (who managed to redeem and immeasurably deepen a story that should have built around her heroic indigenous character but which instead suffered from the usual failure of construction by centering the white men instead in "Killers of the Flower Moon").  Nevertheless, Emma Stone does miraculous work in "Poor Things."  She is the real feminist hero of this year's crop of films.

[In English; rated R for strong and pervasive sexual content, graphic nudity, disturbing material, gore, and language; nominated for Academy Awards for Makeup and Hairstyling (my pick), Original Score, Best Picture, Best Director (Yorgos Lanthimos, my pick among those nominated but should have gone to Celine Song), Best Actress (Emma Stone), Best Supporting Actor (Mark Ruffalo, my pick among those nominated), Best Adapted Screenplay (Tony McNamara, my pick), Best Cinematography (Robbie Ryan, my pick), Film Editing (my pick), Production Design (my pick), and Costume Design (my pick).  Available in theaters and on streaming platforms.]

3.              "L'immensità" deserves much more attention than it has gotten.  It's the story of Clara (the ever luminous Penélope Cruz), a mother of three children who is trapped in an unhappy marriage and a culture that confines her in Rome in the 1970s.  Clara's oldest was born Adriana but wishes to be known as Andrea (Andrew)—but it is the 1970s in Rome and there isn't much of a conception of how Andrea could be insisting on something true. 

Andrea and Clara share something in common in that respect.  Clara, too, doesn't fit into her time; she is beautiful and powerful and inventive and full of life—but the culture she lives in doesn't offer her a way to live as herself.  There is no way for her to leave her marriage to an abusive philanderer, and there are few opportunities for her to express herself and be playful and free.  Her children see her unhappiness and we can see that her situation harms them—one of the younger children eats too much and the other will only play with her food, and they and Andrea watch their mother with a mixture of adoration and worry. 

Though neither Andrea nor Clara can exactly name the parallel challenges they face, and though Clara doesn't have a way to process all of what her trans son needs, her instincts are marvelous in many ways.  She takes him seriously, and owns her worry for him.  She listens with compassion when he expresses that "you and dad made me wrong."  She dances with her children with full abandon and delights in them.  And there is an unforgettable scene in the film when she and Andrea are walking down a busy street.  They look at each other, and Clara says, shall we do it?, clearly suggesting they take an action they have taken before.  Andrea nods, and then the two of them run headlong down the sidewalk against all the traffic, waving their arms and shouting "Aaaaaah!"  It's a beautiful evocation of the freedom they both need and want.

I have admired the films of writer-director Emanuele Crialese in the past—his early film "The Golden Door" (2006) had a lasting impact on me, envisioning the experience of Sicilians immigrating to the U.S. in the early 20th century in a way that illuminates some of the lies in our mythology.  I had not realized until this film that Crialese is himself transgender; he first came out only after making this film.  That revelation underlined the experience I had watching it; Crialese is about my age and, though I did not grow up in Italy, I felt that I understood the time Andrea is living in very well from his perspective, and felt how little room there is for his truth.  Crialese has acknowledged that the story is in many ways autobiographical, depicting his own experiences of dysphoria and also what he observed in his own mother.  As someone who also has had many experiences of not fitting into time and place, I felt deeply their love, the ways they fight for expression, and the ways that Clara applies her native and bruised inventiveness toward love for her children.  As always, Penélope Cruz has burrowed deep into this character, and she has spoken with great insight about Clara's fight to be free.  Absorbing her compassionate performance of that fight was one of the most memorable experiences I had this year. 

[In Italian; not rated; deserved Academy Award nominations for Best Picture, Best International Feature (would be my pick), Best Director (Emanuele Crialese), Best Original Screenplay, and Best Actress (Penélope Cruz).  Available on streaming platforms.]

4.     "Descendant" is the best documentary I saw this year and left me quite undone.  It takes viewers on a very intentional journey of solidarity with a community in Alabama that is largely made up of descendants of the survivors of the Clotilde, the last ship that carried enslaved Africans to the United States.  Part of its focus involves efforts to find the Clotilde itself; it arrived long after the transatlantic slave trade had been outlawed, and the white men who were responsible intentionally burned the ship after its arrival.  For many years the survivors and their descendants understood that even talking about the ship was dangerous for them, even while the "success" of its voyage was an open and applauded secret among many in the white community at the time.  Searching for the Clotilde, approached with wisely directed curiosity, affords an occasion for a search for a way for the community of descendants to seize agency over their own submerged and marginalized stories.

The very construction of the film reflects sound solidarity practice.  Its director, Margaret Brown, is a white woman who grew up in the area, but she was approached to make the film by Kern Jackson, a Black folklorist with his own connections to the community who is credited as a writer and producer on the film and who appears in the film as well.  Brown and her team embedded with the community itself and it shows; the interviews include ruminations of real depth that don't tend to arise without investing the time it takes to build trust.  Descendants and collaborators offer a variety of perspectives on their history, on the meaning of the Clotilde and the efforts to find it, about their roles in the community and about what it means to be Black and to experience generations of harm that has continued without reckoning.  And Kern Jackson dispenses wisdom that reverberated for me:  "Yeah, it's a travesty.  You live with it.  You let it loose.  You name it.  And once you name it, then all the medicinal things start to happen.  Once you name something, you can tell it what to do."

Director Brown has said that she should not have been surprised at how difficult it was to engage descendants of the white participants in the story of the Clotilde to participate in the film.  The families responsible still dominate the community, controlling large amounts of land and influence.  The few white community members who speak on camera complicate the story; they include politicians eager to capitalize on finding the slave ship and a man who proudly claims responsibility for that successful search and who then feels free to bring a descendant of the ship's captain to engage with descendants of the enslaved, heedless of the predictable and very problematic resulting dynamics. 

As hard as some scenes are to watch, the filmmakers' practice is sound.  Everyone is invited, and their participation speaks to the quality of their intentions and the depth of their own engagement with the truth, including the most difficult parts.  The wisdom from many of the film's subjects resonates all the more deeply, even when you realize and observe that they have abundant experiences being ignored and outshone.  I was especially struck by a Black diver with experience locating slave ship remains and who now teaches Black children to swim; he speaks with remarkable clarity and wisdom about the work he is clearly called to do.  This film illuminates the connections between past and present by fostering a practice of deep listening and observation.  It's a marvel of careful work that deserves gratitude and emulation.

[In English; not rated; deserved Academy Award nominations for Best Documentary Feature and Best Director [Margaret Brown].  Streaming on Netflix.]

5.              "The Eternal Memory" is beautiful in its complexity and courage, with a moving love story at its center.  Its subjects are Augusto Góngora, a celebrated Chilean political journalist, and his wife Paulina Urrutia ("Pauli" to her husband), an actor who served as Chile's first culture minister.  The film offers close observation of Góngora's final years, as Alzheimer's disease slowly erased his vitality and memory.

Much of the film captures moments of the two of them at home, via footage captured with the lightest of touches by its director, Maite Alberdi, and a small crew.  They filmed over five years, the later of which occurred during the Covid-19 pandemic, when Pauli herself did much of the camera work.  It's the most intimate of films, centering on Pauli's daily efforts to help Góngora recapture whatever he can of what he has lost—increasingly recognition of who she is to him and of the life they built together. 

Góngora is an important figure in Chile; he was part of a group of journalists who courageously produced clandestine news reports during the dictatorship of Augusto Pinochet, fighting against the regime's erasure of truth via the military-controlled media.  We are offered glimpses of his handsome younger self, interviewing people and tending to the fires of collective awareness.  After the dictatorship collapsed in 1990, Góngora focused his energies on restoring pride in Chilean arts and culture and also shoring up collective memory of the abuses of the regime.  Director Alberdi, who grew up in Santiago, Chile, in the 1990s, has described him as "the face of democracy."  He co-wrote the three-volume "Chile:  The Forbidden Memory," which details the human-rights abuses of the Pinochet era. 

Pauli is just as impressive as her husband; 17 years younger than Góngora, she was his partner for 25 years and married him in 2016, two years after his diagnosis with Alzheimer's. This project must have been a costly one for her; to experience her beloved husband's decline, his increasing loss and helplessness in a public way could only be excruciating.  Yet it was Góngora who persuaded her to participate in the project, filmed between 2017 and 2022, the year before Góngora's passing.  Director Alberdi recounted to Screen Daily the case he made to his wife:  "He said to her, 'I've seen so much pain in my life, so many people have opened their doors to show their fragility.  How can I not open the door of my house to show my own fragility?" 

Pauli's efforts to help Góngora hold on to as much as he can for as long as he can is moving and also instructive.  As he declines, he has periods of despondency and longer periods where he does not know who she is.  And yet there are moments when he returns and even comforts her in her experience of those losses.  His emotional memories, including of the losses that he and others experienced during the Pinochet era, seem to remain even as he loses names and facts.  And the love between these two is resilient and inspiring, as is their radical commitment to hold all of what is true.

[In Spanish; not rated; nominated for an Academy Award for Best Documentary Feature. (I haven't yet seen three of the rest but it is hard to imagine this would not be my pick of those nominated.)  Available on streaming platforms.]

6.              "Rye Lane" faced long odds with me as its audience; I'm not a fan of movie romances and this one wears its heart on its sleeve.  However, from its first moment this film feels bracingly fresh and original.  I fell in love.

It helps that its two leads could not be more delightful and engaging.  Dom (an adorably vulnerable David Jonsson) and Yas (a vibrant Vivian Oparah) meet at a very obnoxious South London art show and, over a very eventful day, discover that each has recently undergone a very bad break-up.  They bond over shared heartache and funky music and the eye-popping color and expressiveness of their neighborhood, the South London enclave of Peckham.  First-time director Raine Allen-Miller carries off a wholly original visual and auditory aesthetic that makes Wes Anderson look stilted; her imagination and energy rejuvenate a familiar genre and make you care about every moment of the journey without being distracted by its familiar beats. 

There is comedy here, and magic, and delight in a community that isn't depicted nearly as often as it could be.  The deftness of Allen-Miller's direction is remarkable; she makes a thousand fresh choices full of intention somehow look easy and effortless.  Perhaps my beef with most romances is less that they are untrue and more that they are uninteresting.  This one invests two romantics with vitality that made me want to believe. 

[In English; rated R for language, some sexual content, and nudity; deserved Academy Award nominations for Best Picture, Best Director (Raine Allen-Miller), Best Actor (David Jonsson), Best Actress (Vivian Aparah), Cinematography, and Production Design.  Streaming on Hulu.]

7.               "Little Richard: I am Everything" does a fine and very overdue job of offering the rock icon the recognition and appreciation he deserves.  I can't say that I fully realized the lack before watching this film, and am so grateful for the corrective.

In this skillful and compassionate tribute, we come to understand much better Little Richard's origins and his significance, both musically and as a mover of culture.  He apparently well understood that he was the true king of rock-and-roll, influencing a host of megastars that included Elvis, the Beatles, Mick Jagger, David Bowie, Elton John, and Tom Jones.  And influence is too light a word; these mostly white performers straight-up lifted his utterly original on-stage acrobatics, his flamboyance, and his playfulness with gender. 

Many of these artists affirm Little Richard's influence in interviews in the film.  But we also have the benefit of scholars who unpack the many manifestations of that influence, as well as his importance to fights for queer identity and acceptance.  They and some of Little Richard's close friends and collaborators contribute insights into his shifts in identity, from loud and proud to debauchery and excess to renouncing it all and returning to his religious roots, causing harm to some of those he helped.  These various shifts, which we see for ourselves in the dizzying array of personas inhabited by Little Richard himself, show us a person who struggled to hang on to who he was even while he sometimes had clarity about that which was far ahead of his time. 

Excerpts of his music and performances are allowed to carry much of this story—and considered from the perspective of time, they are often jaw-dropping in their originality and power.  It's heart-breaking to witness Little Richard's own frequently-expressed pain over how much less credit he received than he deserved, especially since the merits of that perspective become so undeniably clear in this telling. 

Honoring this legacy is no simple task, and director Lisa Cortes has assembled a skillfully complex portrait of this famous but misunderstood and under-celebrated person.  Like Little Richard himself, this film deserves a much wider and more appreciative audience.

[In English; not rated; deserved an Academy Award nomination for Best Documentary Feature.  Available on streaming services.]

8.              "Reality" is not a documentary but may well send you looking for one, as it did me.  ("Reality Winner," currently streaming on Amazon Prime, is a good companion.)  Writer-director Tina Satter, in her first feature film, has approached this story in an extremely canny way, basing it entirely on transcripts of the FBI interrogation that led to the arrest of an NSA whistle-blower.  It's almost better not to know any of that before watching the film, though, and to let the events roll over you in a way that resonates more with how they did for the ironically (and literally) named Reality Winner herself.  Definitely don't research the story further before experiencing the film.

Satter originally crafted the interrogation transcript into a riveting 65-minute play ("Is this a Room"), whose theatrical runs (including a brief stint on Broadway) enjoyed critical success.  The film adaptation recreates in painstaking detail the sparsely furnished house that Winner was renting in Augusta, Georgia in 2017 and the circumstances of the interrogation, which began with a confrontation with FBI agents as she returned from a shopping trip wearing denim shorts, a white button-down shirt, and high-top tennis shoes.  The awkward small-talk and cringy familiarity of many of the exchanges between this slight young woman and an array of male law enforcement officers feel both mundane and maddening.  Satter has rightly discerned that this angle into the story unsettles in all the right ways.  She has found a portal that shines important light on a story we aren't meant to see, both specifically as to Winner and generally as to how the exercise of government power is lived.

The film is aided by a riveting central performance by a nearly unrecognizable Sydney Sweeney, about as far from her hyper-sexualized "Euphoria" character as can be imagined.  She makes you hang on Winner's every word and every twitch, essential to bringing you as close to being inside her body as possible.  Josh Hamilton and Marchánt Davis play the two main interrogators by the book, which feels resonant with what the interrogators themselves were doing.  There is a kind of unreality to the entire exercise, even in its mundanity, that generates appropriate unease with an interaction with significant consequences: you ultimately learn that Winner received a five-year sentence for leaking evidence that the Trump administration did not want released about Russian interference in the 2016 election. 

Satter's instincts here are apt.  Stripped to these essentials, this story receives an important reframe, frightening and discomfiting in all the right ways.

[In English; not rated; deserved Academy Award nominations for Best Picture, Best Director (Tina Satter), and Best Actress (Sydney Sweeney).  Streaming on MAX.]

9.              "Every Body" is perhaps the most accessible film on my list and the one I can most confidently urge everyone to see (though I would make that case for most of these films).  It's a fairly conventional approach to a subject that most of us know nothing about, and it cleanly makes the case that that is inexcusable.

Director Julie Cohen opens the film with a montage of gender reveal parties, a sometimes alarming tradition in which parents invest significant, showy attention to revelations of which of two genders their coming child will be.  A problem with this is that a significant number of people don't fit into this gender binary—including intersex people.  The tradition is one of the endless tells of how culturally attached we are to this fiction.

Taking as its subjects three intersex people who are willing to share intimately and matter-of-factly about their lives, the film helps us understand that intersex experience itself is quite varied and that the ways we harm intersex people with our utterly inaccurate ideas and indefensible needs around gender are legion.  Political consultant Alicia Roth Weigel (she/they) was born with XY chromosomes, a vagina, and testes instead of ovaries.  During her childhood, physicians advised her parents to have her testes removed so that they could declare her biologically female.  Graduate student Sean Saifa Wall (he/him) was born without a uterus, but the hospital declared him female without even consulting his parents.  (He also happens to be Black.)  Actor River Gallo (they/them) was born without testes, and doctors put them on testosterone when they were 12, forcing them to go through puberty as a boy. 

Each of the three subjects describe their experience of these medical interventions, the attendant secrecy, shame, and confusion, and their various struggles to forge an identity that feels authentic.  The film places their experiences in the context of a larger movement of intersex people—and although intersex people have existed for much longer than three decades, that is the age of the movement.  The idea of intersex people coming together in solidarity and advocating for themselves is still treated as radical. There are so many reasons to question why that is so.

In light of our collective ignorance on these matters, the film offers expert commentary and some historical context, including highly unethical medical experimentation that has caused serious harm and created misinformation that has been alarmingly difficult to undo.  Having three guides who share their experiences and simply show us how to be okay with something that doesn't actually involve the rest of us but that seems to provoke such unfounded moral panic deftly removes all excuses.  We come to see one more problem that really is not at all difficult to solve if we simply allow people to tell us what they need and give it to them—especially when what they need includes simply the respect and agency that we all want.

[In English; not rated; deserved an Academy Award nomination for Best Documentary Feature.  Streaming on Amazon Prime.]

10.            "Perfect Days" is strangely affecting, not so much for its story, which is slight, but as a depiction of someone living in a way that we treat as impossible, even inconceivable.  Hirayama (Koji Yakusho in one of the best performances of the year) lives in a simple, sparsely furnished apartment and cleans toilets in Tokyo.  It happens that the toilets are inside the most architecturally interesting bathrooms anyone has ever seen—but they are still toilets.  He approaches his work with great care, and has stripped his life down to the sparest of routines that allow him to savor all that can be savored—the music he plays on cassettes during his drives to his various work locations, the plants he lovingly nurtures, his trips to the local bath house (his apartment lacks those facilities), his simple lunch breaks in the same daily spot where he photographs light through the same tree, and the simple mall restaurant where he takes most of his dinners, a book store where he buys a book for the next week from a seller who offers unsolicited commentary about his varied choices.

Hirayama is a handsome, middle-aged man and, though he doesn't say much, there are lots of indications that he may not have spent his entire life this way.  We learn almost nothing about his back story, although an unexpected visit from his teenage niece reveals a few things indirectly.  Her visit is prompted by a fight with her mother, Hirayama's sister, and their exchange when she comes to retrieve the girl hints at his history.  There is likely pain there, and some sorrow and loss.

But the film doesn't attempt to answer those questions.  It invites us to take a page from Hirayama's book and simply be present and observe.  In one telling exchange with his niece, he cuts off her attempt to make plans for a future visit. "Next time is next time.  Now is now."  They chant it together, like a mantra.  Whatever his reasons, whatever his story, Hirayama is living his life in a way that allows him to appreciate all that it contains.  A final scene lingers on his face, holding it all, in the most beautiful way; when you reach that scene, you might find, as I did, that his face reflects your own back to you.  Next time is next time.  Now is now.

[In Japanese and English; not rated; nominated for (and deserves to win) the Academy Award for Best International Feature; should also have received a nomination for Best Actor (Koji Yakusho, who won the award for Best Actor at Cannes).  In theaters.]

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